Divorcing a Narcissist: Another Morning Spent in Court
Today was the arraignment for child support arrears in the tune of $ 35,514.08.To be honest, I didn't want to go to court this morning. It's not about the money for me- it's the principal of the matter. Even as much as he's done and continues to do: I didn't want to go and watch this portion because its different. It's criminal proceedings and I didn't want to be there.I went anyway and his public defender wasn't prepared so they asked to continue the hearing to the 23rd of this month. I am still waiting on information that I subpoenaed from a business in the Bay Area regarding financials so continuing was actually fine with me.My hearing for custody/visitation is on the same day. There are two additional subpoena's that I will/may be issuing for witnesses to testify since they aren't willing to put their testimony in writing. One woman actually drank two bottles of wine with my x and then he drove my daughters. She "assumed" he would take a cab until he put the girls in his car and said, "I do this all the time" when she asked him not to drive. She was willing to tell me all about it- where it happened and details of the night yet refuses to put it in writing. This one is 100x more frustrating then the Narcissist's roommate because this one involves my little girls. Obviously, a subpoena is in order here.I am now planning my case for October 23rd and will be compiling information, evidence and declarations over the next two weeks. While I feel good about my case, we all know that it's like flipping a coin when you actually walk through the doors of that courtroom. Hoping and praying that this next hearing is the one which will protect my daughters.
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