by Tina Swithin
So much has happened in recent weeks — if you have been following along, you are aware that I received a 4-page cease and desist letter from my ex-in-laws. They are demanding that I #StopTellingTheTruth and retract statements that I’ve made. The truth is my defense and I will not be cowering in this situation. Thanks to the overwhelming support that I received from many of you as well as those in my community, I was able to retain The Bloom Firm which was founded by the amazing Lisa Bloom, daughter of Gloria Allred. After self-representing for five years, working with one of the best law firms in the country has been surreal and a dream come true. They understand the importance of my mission and they have already sent a firm message to opposing counsel.
I have no idea what the next stages will hold but there are fundraisers in progress to assist me if I need to take this to the next level and if not, I will be donating every penny raised to One Mom’s Battle — nothing would make me happier than to be able to turn this around and give it all back!
Last but not least: Yesterday was a big day for my family and I am happy to share our news. When the news about my ex-brother-in-law first broke, I filed for a name change hearing for my daughters. Being that we live in a very small community, I do not want them connected to this family. Our hearing was held yesterday and…it was approved! My daughters have been using my name (Swithin) in school unofficially for the past few years but now it is legal and official. I am pleased to introduce you to Miss Swithin and Miss Swithin — we went out to dinner to celebrate last night and we are all thrilled to begin this new chapter.
While this battle feels never ending, I have come to realize how important it is to absorb each and every positive moment and turn of events — as dark as the past few months have felt, I am once again reminded of the light. Darkness cannot exist where light is present.
One Mom’s Battle is a 501(c)3 non-profit organization. Our mission at One Mom’s Battle is to increase awareness of Cluster B personality disorders (Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Antisocial Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder) and their impact upon shared parenting and the Family Court System which includes Judges, CPS workers, Guardian ad Litems (GAL), Parenting Coordinators (PC), therapists and attorneys. Education on Cluster B disorders will allow these professionals to truly act in the best interest of the children. Please consider a donation to help with our efforts.
History of One Mom’s Battle: In 2011, One Mom’s Battle began with one mother (Tina Swithin) navigating the choppy waters of a high-conflict divorce in the Family Court System. Since then, it has turned into a grassroots movement reaching the far corners of the Earth with over 100-chapters in five different countries. In 2014, One Mom’s Battle achieved non-profit status which will allow the group to take their mission to the next level.
Tina Swithin offers annual retreats, coaching services and more at www.tinaswithin.com