What a journey! Not only did I survive but I’ve thrived.
Today is the official release of “Divorcing a Narcissist- One Mom’s Battle” and I am so happy to share my story with all of you! How did I fall into the trap of a narcissist? What were the red flags that I saw along the way but chose to ignore? I will share all of that and more!
I started writing my book in April of this year and I am happy to report that my project is complete. Writing this book has completed my healing and allowed me to reflect on the past ten years of my life while learning and growing. Thank you for following my journey, cheering me on and cheering me up when I was feeling defeated.
Inside my book you will find:
- My relationship from the very beginning and the red flags that were lining my path. I offer “Red Flag Reflections” which I pause and point out what I should have paid attention to and why.
- The separation and divorce where things went from bad to worse.
- Tips on surviving the journey through divorcing a narcissist. It isn’t easy but you can do it!
- The Narc Decoder which will teach you how to take those “crazy making” emails and understand the deep, dark pit in which they were generated from. Once you understand the hidden messages, the emails will no longer evoke emotions from you. Essentially, you can take back the power.
- The Family Court System with a narcissist which is a bad concoction. A narcissist in divorce court is the modern day spin on Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.
- Forgiveness and Acceptance- start your path to healing by forgiving yourself and accepting the reality of the narcissist in your life.
Today is the official release date of Divorcing a Narcissist- One Mom’s Battle. You will receive a PDF copy by email while you wait for your book to ship. Click here to purchase today. Thank you for being a part of my journey! In gratitude- Tina Swithin
One Mom’s Battle has been featured in the Huffington Post, Washington Times and The Examiner. One Mom’s Battle has become a support system and a lifeline for thousands of women across the world who are actively in battle against a Narcissist and the Family Court System.
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Congratulations!
I purchased the PDF version and will be looking forward to a signed copy!
Thanks for all you do!
Lori
Happy Thanksgiving, Lori! <3 Tina
Congratulations! You’re an awesome writer, and I look forward to reading the book.
Happy Thanksgiving
Yay! Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving! <3 Tina
Tina,
Congratulations. This is so very exciting! Prayers for fruitfulness and blessings. It sounds like one more thing to be thankful for. Happy Thanksgiving to all
Thank you, M!!! Happy Thanksgiving to you! <3 Tina
I don’t see how you can use that letter in court. In my town with my judge if you don’t have a person to cross examine no letters written by them are admissible. Having said that I wish you all the best in this battle we are all fighting against pure evil. Hugs.
Oh Tina….I feel awful for what you are going through. I gave up my parenting fight with my ex, and we share custody/access. (I wasn’t strong enough to fight) He doesn’t hit my kids, and I wouldn’t let him either. I think you are doing what you should be! Standing up for them…it just totally sucks that your kids have to suffer in the process. Be strong!! Karma is a b*tch. ‘Seth’ will get what he deserves one day… xo
A very recent convo with my ex…6 weeks ago, he approached me about our son needing speech therapy. (When he is in school, it is covered in time and expense through a program with the school. Summer is approaching, and he will need to continue speech therapy.) My ex has been back to work for 7 months after a 9 month sick leave from an injury he sustained picking up a box. (As an aside, my ex lifts weights and works out daily). Anyway, during this time off he used up considerable benefits. He has a very good job, and amazing benefits. He told me that he only had a lifetime amount of benefits and since he used up so many while off, he didn’t want to put our son’s speech therapy thru insurance and thus delpleting the lifetime amount. I reluctantly agreed to pay out of pocket for half, if I needed to. (My rationale is for my son. I have no intention of denying him speech therapy). Plus, I can’t make my ex husband do anything, let alone out something through insurance if he didn’t want to. I thought its not a hill I’m prepared to die on..anyway, I did ask him to please confirm that this would be NOT going thru insurance and that we would both be paying out of pocket..to which he didn’t respond. That was 6 weeks ago..
This is the email I got yesterday…
Hi. I’ll be calling speech therapist today. R u ok with splitting ___ costs for his extra sessions. She said the sessions will be $60 every 2nd week, which we can split. (I can put through my insurance, then u can pay me the $30).
Does that still sound ok with u?
Thanks. I hope to call today.
Ummm…my response…
I thought that you weren’t putting it through insurance, which is why we were going to pay her cash.
If you are putting it through insurance, the insurance company pays it…why would I then give you $30? As it sounds now…you pays nothing, I pays $30?
Based on this…you are going to be making money, from me, for speech therapy.
Please make me understand this.
His response…
I completely expected this response from you. I already explained to you, that my insurance has a cap. Both annually, and lifetime. Therefore, I can run out of insurance before I retire, which is especially possible due to my arm injury. …. I would prefer you put it through your insurance, as I pay for everything, including medical and dental. Perhaps later we should address this also, because its not fair that I have to put everything through my insurance.
Anyway, let me know if you can either split it, or put it through your insurance, as I want to call speech therapist later.
To which I didn’t respond…
Our separation agreement states that he is responsible to keep the kids on his insurance. I don’t even have it thru my job…I opted out as I am remarried and are on my husband’s policy…
Am I losing my mind here? What am I doing wrong?